Hello! It’s Chou-Tac.
Many designers, myself included, are introverts. Socializing doesn’t always come naturally to us, making networking events feel challenging. But I’ve found a simple trick that has started making a real difference for me—and it can help you too.
The Challenge: Remembering Names
Have you ever met great people but forgotten their names minutes later? I definitely have. Since being in Vietnam, I’ve met over 100 people with names from all over the world, making it even more difficult to remember everyone.
The “Mundo Lingo Vietnam” Experience
Last week, I attended Mundo Lingo Vietnam, an event where locals and foreigners gather to chat in different languages. The first few minutes, I was shy, but then I started talking to people—and magic happened.
Everyone has a unique story, and simple conversations and laughter create great connections. One girl who spoke Chinese, Vietnamese, and English fluently asked me about French culture. She said she already felt comfortable with our small group, even though we just met. That felt like a wonderful compliment!
How to Make a Name Stick
To really enjoy networking and build connections, remembering and using people’s names is key. Simply repeating a name in your mind isn’t enough—you have to say it out loud.
For example:
- “John, thank you.”
- “Ngoc, do you want a drink?”
- “Lea, what do you do for work?”
- “Martin, one more tequila shot?”
- “Hey John, what do you think about this?”
Say their name throughout your conversation, and when you say goodbye, say it again. This small effort helps you stand out in people’s hearts.
Why This Works for Introverts
When we were kids, we were taught not to talk to strangers. Now as adults, it’s our responsibility to make the first step—start conversations and connect. This one simple habit helps introverted designers build relationships naturally.
Go Beyond Just Interviewers
When you meet people at work events, don’t just remember the names of your interviewers or clients—also remember their colleagues, assistants, and receptionists. These details make you memorable and liked.
You never know who holds the real decision power or who influences it. Be humble, kind, and treat everyone equally, and people will treat you as someone special.
Networking doesn’t have to be daunting. Start by using people’s names, showing real interest, and making meaningful connections that last.
Have a fantastic day!
Cheers,
Chou-Tac
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